Common questions
Should the group cover the bride's share of everything?
There is no single right answer, and it depends entirely on your group's budget and tradition. A common approach is for the group to cover the bride's accommodation and activities on the trip itself, while she still books and pays for her own flights. Agreeing this clearly before anyone books anything avoids awkward conversations later.
How much does a typical girls' trip or bachelorette weekend cost per person?
This varies enormously by destination and group size, but a mid-range long weekend covering accommodation, food, activities and nightlife commonly lands somewhere between 300 and 600 per person, not including flights. Larger groups usually bring the accommodation cost per person down significantly, since it is split further.
What is a fair way to handle people with a tighter budget?
Being upfront early is the key. Consider offering a lower-cost tier that skips one or two paid activities, or a shorter stay option that still includes the main event. It is much easier for someone to opt out of one dinner in advance than to feel pressured to spend beyond their means once the trip has started.
Should we book one house or separate hotel rooms?
A shared house or villa is usually cheaper per person for groups of five or more, and it naturally becomes the social hub for pre-drinks and getting ready together. Separate hotel rooms give more privacy and are often easier to book and pay for individually, which can reduce the admin of chasing everyone for their share.